talk of death

Since so many people are afraid of death they may be afraid to ask you questions about the cremation urn you would prefer, especially if you display it in your home. While it is an intensely personal item, you should never feel ashamed by it.

 Speak about it openly when people seem curious and invite questions, but never give out more information than you’re comfortable with, such as how much it cost. That is no one’s business. If the individual who is asking questions is a child, make sure it is all right with his or her parents before answering questions about the cremation urn. Children learn their fears from the adults around them, so putting them at ease around such an item may actually be good for them. After all, it is something that they will have to face eventually.

You will no doubt face some criticism or distaste from those around you when you choose to display a cremation urn in your home. Some people feel as if keeping the ashes is overly morbid or that you’re holding onto the deceased person when you should be learning to let go. You should let these people know how you grieve is not their business, and that you will never feel ashamed of keeping your loved one close to you.

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